“Our work has a different connotation to it, and we cannot allow it to be tainted by the expectations of this world.”
The premise of this statement hinges on the Truth of the Great Commandments,
“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: Love your neighbor as yourself.”
And expectations or the pressure to meet them cannot get in the way.
The world, and sometimes, we, ourselves; expect certain things of our lives by a certain period in our lives. We postpone our joy, and simultaneously, our ability to love to “one day when.” One day when I land my dream job, one day when I meet my ideal mate, one day when we make our dream home, one day when the kids graduate, one day when we retire to travel the world; one day.
That elusive “one day” never really matters, my friend. Because the day we are waiting on is the one we are sitting in. The work assigned to our life is sacred. It’s holy. It consists in loving God first, and then loving our neighbor as ourselves. It finds fulfillment in the “here” and “now.” But there is one potential threat that can limit our ability to love, and that is a depletion in our level of joy.
Bob Goff links it the best I know. He says,
“When joy is a habit, love is a reflex.”
Simple, yet profound.
Let’s think back to the times we loved really well. Those were perhaps the most joyful times in lives, when love seemed to flow effortlessly.
Begs the question.
What then happened?
Comparison, I believe. I cannot help but quote timeless words by Theodore Roosevelt,
“Comparison is the thief of joy.”
Children love well – freely, lavishly, extravagantly. The way God would have us. It is when they grow up a bit, are exposed to the world that comparison slowly, but surely starts to seep in, plaguing their joy and soiling their love. I feel it hasn’t stopped since.
But it’s time for a change.
If we are going to fulfil the work God has called us to, then we are going to have to lay the weights of comparison and expectations aside. We are going to have to travel light. We are going to have to become intentional about letting the joy of The Lord be our strength, and expressing our faith through love. We are going to have to do it. But the beauty is, we don’t “have” to do it. We are “chosen” to do it. We are “equipped” to do it. We are “empowered” to do it. We are “wired” to do it. We are “destined” to do it.
Simply put?
We “get” to do it.
It is when we allow His Spirit to authentically align our desires with His, that we will find one more surprising fact.
We are “able” to do it.
It’s moments like these that become your greatest teachers and treasures. Because what I’m learning is this: