“It’s about building relationship, not resolution.”
I don’t know about you, but I often find myself, in all my glorious impatience, that once I’ve prayed, the resolution should be instantaneous. I have come a long way, friends; but through the process I’ve learned that while I was more attached to the outcome, God was always more attached to me.
It’s not much for Him who defeated death to grant us the breakthroughs in our circumstances that we contend for. He remains deeply concerned about everything that concerns us, but He is a Father who is mature enough to understand that what His Child really needs is relationship, not resolution.
Think with me on this for a bit. If He did grant us all our breakthroughs in a heartbeat, what would we need faith for?
“Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.” (Hebrews 11:1, KJV)
Clearly, when we contend for heavenly realities to manifest in our lives, families, communities and nations; it is the process entailed with it that beckons us to grow in our relationship with Our Maker. It is in the process that we encounter His Presence, allowing His Spirit to minister to us things that the natural mind cannot comprehend, and hence we need faith.
When the God of the Universe asks us to believe in and for something, it usually seems like an impossible feat in the natural. But He exhorts us that what is impossible with man, is possible with God (Luke 18:27). So, a God thing would not only require us to have faith IN God, but the faith OF God. What does this mean? I believe it means that we learn, slowly but surely, to elevate the Truth of what He has spoken over what we see with our natural eyes. If we fix our gaze only on what we see happening in the natural, we may lose heart. But I believe Jesus tells us to, “take heart!” for a reason. We can take heart simply because we have access to a Higher Truth and a superior reality, but for that to manifest, we will have to intentionally fix our gaze on Jesus – the author and the finisher of our faith.
Jesus was never held captive by the state of circumstances around Him. He knew who He was and whose He was. He knew where He came from and was well versed with His Purpose which, I believe, enabled Him to see, think and do only that which The Father did. He thought from Heaven to Earth and often prayed so as to remain in divine alignment. This represents a majesty mind set, which in and through a relationship with Christ, is our portion too.
However, the cultivation of such a mind set is purely relational for it is God who gives us the grace to believe for the impossible to become a tangible reality in our lives. It is God who works the character of Christ within us to empower us, liberate us and unleash us. It is God who in those times that we harbor unbelief or doubt, fear or anxiety, despair or grief; gives us comfort through The Holy Spirit. It is God who releases promises into our lives and then patiently works with us to develop us into the stature of who He calls us to be in order that we may no longer be overwhelmed by the current state of circumstances, because we are now being trained to set our minds on the truth of prophecy and promise, and understand that it’s only a matter of time before it all comes to pass.
So, the question really is this: how do we wait upon The Lord? I absolutely love how The Word frames this thought,
“Oh, that we might know the LORD! Let us press on to know him. He will respond to us as surely as the arrival of dawn or the coming of rains in early spring.” (Hosea 6:3, NLT)
That encapsulates the very heartbeat of what I believe The Lord has laid on my heart. He assures us of His Faithfulness towards manifesting the required outcome. But in the same breath, He also spurs us on to know Him.
What is He talking of here?
Relationship.
Why is He crazy about it? Because He is not only crazy about us, but also about having us know who WE are IN Him and what we have access to THROUGH Him. The degree to which we know who we are in Him is the degree to which we will remain undaunted in the face of adversity and uncertainty. We will always have circumstances, because God calls us more than conquerors. To manifest that dimension of our Identity however, will require us to overcome, and in the overcoming, guess what?
We are becoming.
Suffice to say, our becoming is pivotal because it allows God to entrust us with more. More giants to slay, more mountains to conquer and more battles to win. It’s how He sees us, friends that defines us, and He sees us as victorious!
Not because of who we are, but because of who HE is, a Truth that can be etched out in the deepest crevices of our being only when we yield with supreme joy and delight to the absolute privilege of “relationship” as opposed to resolution.
Selah.

